What is orgasmic disorder? "Orgasmic disorder is a condition in which there is sufficient intensity of sexual stimulation to arouse sexual desire, but orgasm is still delayed and cannot be elicited. One or more of the following symptoms may persist or recur: difficulty with sexual intercourse; significant vulvar or pelvic pain during intercourse or attempts at entry; fear or anxiety about vulvar or pelvic pain before, during or resulting from entry. "Orgasmic disorder' causes psychological distress to the woman while making it difficult to reach orgasm, decreasing the intensity of orgasm or delaying orgasm. Ending too quickly, not having enough foreplay, or fear of losing control over orgasm and fear of losing orgasm too quickly can all lead to orgasmic disorder.

"Lack of orgasm' is not necessarily 'orgasmic disorder', but orgasmic disorder is definitely 'lack of orgasm'. The lack of orgasm can be caused by a lack of psychological reasons and physical reasons: psychological reasons are generally more difficult for women than for men, as they require both a good emotional foundation and a pleasant state of mind and a good, quiet environment at the time of intercourse. As a result, family discord, financial constraints, housing tensions, poor work performance, inconsiderate partners, fear of conception and affairs with partners can all be causes of orgasm deficiency. Some partners lack sexual knowledge, neglect foreplay and start intercourse before their girlfriends have reached the erotic stage, thus causing pain in the yin channel and thus inhibiting the production of orgasm. Sometimes men are so mentally relaxed and physically exhausted after ejaculating rice green that they can easily fall asleep on their own. The woman's sexual excitement is slow to subside, and suffering from such coldness may psychologically create a strong inhibition, which over time may be an obstacle to having an orgasm during sex afterwards. The lack of orgasm can be caused by poor physical health, fatigue, excessive alcohol consumption, or the use of inhibiting drugs. Chronic inflammation of the sexual organs, such as vulvodynia, sinusitis, cervicitis and pelvic inflammatory disease, can produce painful intercourse and inhibit the onset of orgasm. The number of women who experience a lack of orgasms is gradually increasing as the mucous membrane of the yin tract gradually shrinks after menopause and secretion decreases, making it easier for pain to occur during intercourse.

Many mental disorders can also cause a lack of orgasm, such as depression, neurasthenia, hysteria and certain types of personality disorders. In addition, any serious wasting disease or endocrine disorder can cause a lack of orgasm. What is an orgasmic disorder? Most orgasmic disorders occur in association with new medical, anatomical, relational, behavioural or psychological changes, usually in conjunction with difficulties with sexual interest and arousal or with symptoms of genital-pelvic pain and penetration disorders. In rare cases, orgasmic disorders may be due to underlying neurological conditions, changes associated with genital or pelvic surgery and radiation therapy or medication. "Orgasmic disorder' is a type of 'sexual dysfunction'. In women, 'sexual dysfunction' refers mainly to a disorder in one or more parts of a woman's sexual response cycle, or to pain associated with sexual life. In addition to 'orgasmic disorder', there are four other types of 'sexual dysfunction': sexual arousal disorder, penetration disorder (yin cramps, painful intercourse), substance or drug-induced sexual dysfunction, and other specific classifications and unspecified sexual dysfunctions.

In short, 'sexual dysfunctions' are not uncommon. But the inability to have an orgasm does not necessarily mean 'orgasmic disorder'. Studies have long shown that around 90% of women can have a clitoral orgasm and less than 70% of women can have a genital orgasm, although this is often based on adequate stimulation of the clitoris. So, if you are unable to achieve orgasm, excluding physical and psychological reasons, it is also highly likely that your knowledge and skills are not up to scratch. How is "orgasmic disorder" treated? Because there are many causes associated with orgasmic disorders, such as psychological, educational, age, medical (surgery, radiotherapy, medication), hormone levels, gynaecological and urological disorders, etc., it is important to seek medical attention if needed, and not to wonder and believe on your own! Leave it to the professionals, and let the doctor help the patient find the root cause and further treatment. What can you do if you can't clearly rule out physical factors? Due to the lack of formal sex education, many girls do not know much about their own bodies, and are even more reticent about the word 'sensitive'. Many guys, however, have been poisoned by pornography and have little knowledge of their partners' bodies, and lack caresses and skills during sex.

This is the time for both partners to set their mindset straight, put aside the so-called 'shame', actively learn the correct knowledge about sex, understand and develop their body's sensitive zones, communicate honestly with each other, and work together to enjoy better sex ~ Psychological Interventions After excluding the physical causes, psychological shackles also have a great impact on women's sexual pleasure. Some women are unable to have an orgasm, and this may be the reason. This is why it is a good idea to find a reliable counsellor to clear the knots and embrace freedom and pleasure. Sex and love go hand in hand and can be difficult to separate completely. So if there are problems in your relationship with your partner due to a disagreement in bed, or if there is a disagreement in bed due to a disagreement in your relationship, then perhaps try contacting a marriage/relationship counsellor or sex therapist. Try self-stimulation Unlike the 'traditional male sex' perception, a woman's orgasm does not have to be 'given' by the man to achieve it. On the contrary, it can be more enjoyable to do it yourself. If you suspect you have an orgasmic disorder, you need to be careful to distinguish whether you are unable to orgasm with your boyfriend in a dyad or whether you are unable to orgasm either alone or in a dyad.

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