There are no limits to sex, being lesbian or gay is completely natural and there is nothing wrong with being attracted to our own gender. In today's culture, talking about homosexuality is no longer taboo, and more and more women and even straight men are attracted to lesbian pornography or female-to-female sexuality.

As you read this article, you must be curious about what lesbianism is and how to go about it. The truth is that there is a lot of pornography or images that are built for men's desires, and women who are curious about lesbianism have a hard time knowing what would happen without a man's involvement.

Therefore, this article is written for women who are ready to have their first lesbian encounter. If you're nervous about it, don't worry, we've got some great tips for you that can make your first experience wonderful and fun.

Know if you're lesbian or bisexual

Women, especially young women, are questioning whether they are straight or lesbian and they are unsure of their true sexuality. What's more, some women don't consider themselves lesbians even if they have feelings for women or are sexually attracted to women. So first of all, figuring out if you are lesbian, bisexual or heterosexual is very important to get everything started. Again, there is nothing wrong with not being attracted to men and you should be proud of yourself and be who you are. Here are some quick tests that can help you understand your true sexual orientation.

Which gender do you like the most?

Have you ever seen a pretty girl and had a fluttering feeling in your chest and couldn't help but stare at her?

Have you ever found yourself wanting to do sexual things to a girl?

If you're not sure, it's okay, you should spend more time figuring out what your true sexual orientation is.

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Communication always comes first

If you are already in a lesbian relationship, skip the first tip. A lesbian relationship is no different than a heterosexual relationship, except this time it's two women. Before having sex, make sure that

 Start a sexual conversation with your partner and make sure you are both consenting.

Ask your partner what sexual positions are unacceptable to her or make her uncomfortable.

Do it safely. Talk with your partner about their sexual history and reduce your risk of sexually transmitted diseases.

You can both bring sex toys or sex dolls to add to the fun.

If anything becomes too much, establish a safe word or boundary.

In short, always pay attention to each other's feelings and reactions during lesbian sex to make sure everything feels good and no one is getting hurt.

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Play it safe

Women who have sex with other women who exchange bodily fluids or engage in skin-to-skin genital contact can transmit or contract STIs and are at risk for infection. Therefore, it is important that you carefully discuss when they were last examined and their sexual history. Oral sex is an important part of lesbian intimacy, so if you like to "get down" on your partner, you can use a dental dam to protect yourself from oral infections. Also, people with vaginas like to finger-fuck, which is important for achieving pleasure and orgasm, so keeping your fingers short and clean can protect your partner from injury and reduce the risk of infection.

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Masturbation is the key

Masturbation is an inexpensive and quick way to get to know your body and know what turns you on or makes you happy. Of course, we're not saying that masturbation will also make your partner happy, but if you know your body better, it's a good place to start. Also, you can learn more about the vulva, vagina and clitoris, and you can look beautiful with a mirror between your legs. Every woman's body is different, some like a hard and fast part on the clitoris, but others like slow friction, so be sure to check your partner's reaction when you touch her sensitive area.

Another great way to do this is to masturbate in front of your partner. This allows your partner to see that you like to be touched and they can tell you that they like to be touched.

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Bring a sex toy

 Bringing sex toys into the bedroom for the first time can be daunting, but using them can lead to a new way of pleasure and instant heat. For those without much sexual experience, sex toys can enhance your bedroom romance with your partner and learn more about your partner's body through their versatile features. Always the hottest choice for any two people with vulvas, clitoral stimulators are the best chance for each of you to reach orgasm and prolong sexy time with your partner.

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Practice with lifelike sex dolls

If you are not a lesbian and are afraid to go out looking for a date, then a lesbian doll will be your best lesbian test item. A realistic full-body sex doll is shaped like a real woman, with a vagina, anus, breasts and a mouth to kiss and fuck. Having sex with a beautiful silicone sex doll will practice your sexual skills and give you sexual pleasure in the process.

 Don't overthink it, it should feel fun

If you have never had lesbian sex before, please don't pretend you are an experienced person and try to be an expert at it, this is by no means a competition, it should be a fun journey of discovery for you and your partner. I know you want to show off your sexual skills to please your partner, but it takes time and once you do it twice, the third and fourth time, it gets better and better. Never go too fast in the process, take your time and learn more about your partner's body, lesbianism is not just about reaching orgasm, taking your time will help you and your partner get there eventually.