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Before you get started, it's important to know how to use a vibrator in the best way possible.

How do you know which one to buy if you've never bought one before? How can you use them during sex, or even suggest introducing them into your partner's sex life? For example, where and how should you use them to make them feel good?

Knowing that it is completely normal - even for couples

The first thing to realise is that sex toys are now a regular part of many couples' sex lives. Using a mood doesn't mean your sex life is rubbish, so removing your partner's fear of lack should be the first item on your list. Using a vibrator is a fun way to reaffirm mutual trust and allow you to be more open, intimate and confident with each other's bodies.

Everyone is different and you need to find the right vibe for your body. You can choose from a variety of types, which can be a little intimidating if you're not sure where to start.

Bullet vibrators

A great beginner sensation is the bullet vibrator - these small but powerful vibrators are primarily used for clitoral stimulation. Due to their small size and easy to use shape, bullet feelers are a good choice of toy for first time users. They are also very discreet, quiet and inexpensive.

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Rabbit Vibrator

Rabbit vibrators are known for introducing women and people with vaginas to what is known as a 'hybrid orgasm' (i.e. an orgasm that occurs when two sexual zones are stimulated at the same time, such as the clitoris and the G-spot).

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Vibrating plug ring

If one of the partners is lucky enough to have a penis, then a vibrating penis ring may be the best option. These are usually small bullet vibrators that are attached to a multifunctional ring that walks around the penis. Not only do the rings put some extra pressure on the penis, which usually produces a stronger erection, but having the vibrator attached means that both partners can feel the buzz without having to worry about holding or placing the vibrator. Using the penis ring, typical missionary sex is great as the vibrator tends to make contact with the clitoris with each thrust. The man's penis also has a wonderful quivering sensation throughout the experience.

Bullet Vibrator

For women who have difficulty achieving orgasm through typical sex acts, or for men who have problems with premature ejaculation, buying a bullet vibrator may be a good financial investment. Due to its small size, the bullet is easy to position. For many ladies, using one during penetration will certainly speed up the process of reaching orgasm considerably. For a man with premature ejaculation, this can take a lot of pressure off and allow him to enjoy sex while knowing that his partner will certainly still enjoy himself. If a woman battles with orgasm, including a mix of bullet vibrators means that the man will not have to hold on for hours to bring his woman to orgasm. No sex-related problems, either.

Other vibrators

Many other kinds of vibrators will definitely be a little bigger, especially if you use a rabbit or magic wand style vibrator. Positioning these during sex may be a little more difficult, but there's no trying factor! As long as you and your partner are willing to do a little work, you can try out all the examples and see how much room your vibrator can provide.

I might detail many anecdotes about using a vibrator during sex. Things like developing foreplay before you get naked, pressing it against your cheek while offering your partner teeth, or perhaps both wearing a remote control regulator and teasing each other until you plead for it, are all wonderful pleasures. Ultimately, however, it depends on your own preferences and how you feel about it.

However, it is worth it. Almost anyone who has tried using a vibrator during sex will tell you that their orgasm was faster, stronger or easier. It's not something you intend to do every time, but taking the extra time to familiarise yourself with some of your partner's extra toys can actually be unsettling for them, and their appreciation of it can be an incredible shift in perspective. Get those resonances and get into the bedroom! Your companion won't understand what's hitting them.

Nowadays, in order to make their sex life better, many people will choose to buy sex toys to increase their sexual desire, especially the number of people who buy sex dolls nowadays, whether they are male love dolls or female love dolls, they are becoming more and more popular and it is normal for everyone to have sexual needs. But it is important to remember to use sex toys wisely