Finding new ways to touch, tease and please your partner is the best way, so we have to tell you a little secret: You should stimulate your man’s nipples-just like every time you have sex.

Why? Because ignoring your man’s nipples would be a big mistake. huge! Especially if you want him to experience some fireworks.

Just as your nipples may be a super hot sexy zone, so are men. In fact, your man’s nipples may even be more sensitive than yours because men are not used to being touched—or at least often.

"For men, the nipple has no other function besides being a sexy area. But everyone is different, and things that may feel good to some people may hurt, itchy, or irritate others," The scientist Carlos Cavazos (Carlos Cavazos) said. "For many men, they need to touch their nipples to reach orgasm. For others, pure nipple play can make them reach an earth-shattering orgasm,"

In fact, according to the National Library of Medicine and the National Institutes of Health, 52% of men report that nipple stimulation causes or enhances their sexual arousal.

Our advice: Use these tips and tricks to drive your man crazy. it works. real.

1. First, see if he is interested in playing with nipples.

As with any sex-related thing, some people may play with nipples, while others may not. Sex coach Dr. Jenn Gunsaullus said that an easy way to test the water is to start by simply touching his breasts playfully. From there, you can ask him how he feels and walk from there.

2. Ask him what he wants.

Communication is key: "Ask him questions, such as ‘how do you want me to touch them?’ and "When is the best time to touch my nipples?" Marla Renee Stewart, a sex expert at Lovers sexual health brand and retailer, advises: "These questions will help you understand more clearly what your lover likes and dislikes, and will help your sexual experience go smoothly. "

3. Actively *avoid* nipples.

It seems counterintuitive, but please trust me for a second. "Sit straddle your partner, let your fingers pass through his chest area, avoiding the nipples first," Cavazos suggested. "Then, gently move your fingertips from the top of his chest to the navel, making sure to make contact with the nipple. As you continue, pay more attention to his nipple and see how he reacts." The goal here is to seduce And tease him with low-key desire for you to touch his nipples.

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4. Try rubbing.

If you are at a loss after you actually start toying with his nipples, there are many actions you can try so you don't just sit there and feel confused. Dr. Jill McDevitt, a resident sexologist at CalExotics, recommends rubbing them in a circular fashion and then changing directions.

Use your fingertips, nails, and even your palms for different intensities. You can also try to rub back and forth or up and down, changing the speed to see his reaction. If he is not used to nipple games, he will embark on this journey with you, so don't be afraid to try and have fun. After all, laughter can relieve tension and help wake up.

5. Use your mouth gently.

Once you interact with his nipples, try to use more numbers to have fun. Cavazos recommends that before using the tongue to outline the nipples, lightly blow the nipples with your mouth to increase their sensitivity.

6. Then use your mouth to be more intense...

Cavazos said that if the whole thing using your mouth works, feel free to explore by licking, sucking and biting. "Just remember to start slowly and accumulate slowly. You want to build a level of expectation, pleasure, and comfort."

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7. Change your technique.

No matter how great things are, repetition can become tedious, so try to change your movements. Dr. McDevitt suggested "licking his tongue with a flat ice cream cone" and then making fun of him by "licking his entire breast and crossing the nipple as you walk." Not knowing what will happen will create greater tension.

8. Add some swear words.

Stewart suggests that when you lick and play with his nipples, consider using your lips for other things. Try to talk about fantasies, engage in some super passionate kissing, and even hum to his nipples to create a sense of vibration.

9. Try to pinch.

Seriously, try it. If your man is experiencing nipple scenes, Coltrane Lord is an expert in sex and intimacy and the author of The Kinky Vanilla Love Project: The Sexy Soulful Journey From Betrayal to Bliss. He recommends increasing the pressure and adjusting his nipples. Be sure to check to see how he felt before, during, and after, because the happiness/pain combination may be new to him.

10. Change the pressure.

Cavazos pointed out that happiness preferences do vary from person to person, even from time to time. "Some men seem to get pleasure from light touch and subtle sucking or flicking with the tongue. Others are less sensitive and need more intense stimulation, such as pinching or sucking harder," he said. Mix according to mood and see what you all like.

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11. Use your atmosphere.

You may have one or two vibrators (if not, please buy one. Please). Try different settings on his nipples and see what feels good. Best-case scenario: He likes it. Worst case scenario: Your vibrator is out, so you might as well use it yourself. In addition, don’t just confine yourself to the traditional atmosphere. Lord suggested to take out your suction toy and use it on his nipples to get another feeling.

12. Try some ~nipples~toys.

If he seems to accept the idea of a toy, why not buy a set of nipple clips to enhance the experience? You will obviously want to make sure that he is interested in the idea, but if so, take your time and increase the intensity gradually. If you don’t want to buy something, just take some clothespins and use them to see if you’re willing to buy something you like better. In addition, a professional tip from Lord: "Put [your toy] in a beautiful box so that it is sexy-not clinical.

13. Open fire.

No matter which area you stimulate, temperature games are a must try, and the nipples are very sensitive, which makes them particularly interesting in slightly hot conditions. For a hotter atmosphere, Taylor Sparks, the erotic educator and founder of Organic Loven, recommends some hot wax or warm massage oil/lube. Before moving to the nipple, make sure to test the temperature in the sensitive area on the inside of their wrist.

14. Then turn down the heat.

Chances are you already know that cold temperatures will make your nipples stand up, so use this technique when playing with your man. Sexologist Megan Stubbs (Megan Stubbs) suggested rubbing an ice cube on his nipple or putting cool, melted water droplets on his chest. Sparks also pointed out that you can also use stainless steel toys for temperature games. Take a steel dildo, put it in the refrigerator or warm water, and rub some on his nipples to avoid messing up.

15. Play with feelings.

If you are not ready to put some coins on a new toy (or don’t want to get any nipples without seeing if he really likes it first-y), you can literally pick up some household items to change it . Lord suggested using a feather to scratch his nipples, gently breaking the areola with a rubber band, and even using the back of a cold spoon to make them upright and ready for further stimulation.

16. Cooperate with sex toys

You can use some sex toys to stimulate when you arouse. Nowadays, sex toys have become more and more common. From their appearance in pornographic videos to now common in real life, many single men choose a real one in order to solve their sexual needs. Sex dolls. They have full-size sex dolls and torso sex dolls. You can also use them here. You can choose some dolls with big interests. It can be a realistic Japanese sex doll in a porn film or a fantasy sex doll. baby.