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Did you know that approximately 10% of the world's population is disabled? Well, while the number of people with disabilities in developing countries is very high and the rate of disability is higher for women than for men, disability just qualifies you as the largest marginalized group in the world. According to the United Nations Development Program (UNDP), disability rates are expected to rise with age, and in fact, 25% of the population in developing countries has at least one form of disability. The continued increase in the number of people with disabilities can be attributed to the following factors.
An increase in the older population, the majority of whom have a disability
The estimated increase in the number of minors with disabilities, especially in developing countries, due to factors such as child labor, malnutrition, and disease prevalence.
The impact of war and conflict on children. Three quarters of children exposed to armed conflict will suffer from a lasting disability.
Disability is strongly associated with poverty, especially in developing economies. Vulnerable groups are more likely to acquire a disability because they do not have access to quality medical care, nutrition and sanitation, and in most cases work under poor conditions. Acquiring a disability in this context can exacerbate the situation as it creates barriers that limit their access to education, public services and employment, thus helping them to escape poverty.
Sexuality for people with disabilities
While sex is essential to a person's well-being, it is often assumed that this does not apply to people with disabilities. In fact, people with disabilities often find it unattractive and unworthy of intimate relationships because they believe they cannot live up to the ideal image set by society. Even worse, when a disability appears later in life, the person feels very unattractive comparing their past to their present. Disability stereotypes exacerbate the overwhelming and disability stigma. Such myths include
People with disabilities do not need sex
Sexuality must be unplanned for a defined period of time
The topic of sex and disability is overrated
Sex between people with disabilities is not "real sex"
People with disabilities are not sexually attractive
People with disabilities do not need sex education
People with disabilities have other needs that outweigh sex
People with disabilities should not have children.
What about disability and sexuality? Well, a disability is simply a physical or mental impairment that hinders a person's movement, sensitivity and judgment. Disorders that impede sexual function, affect mobility, impair memory, and medications that trigger sexual dysfunction are examples of disorders that affect a man's sex life. Just like anyone else, the sexuality of men with disabilities has been overlooked, as have the physical and emotional benefits that come with sex. While the topic is widely discussed, an in-depth look at the challenges that people with disabilities face while trying to lead a satisfying sex life, just like everyone else, not only in the public but in the medical community as well.
People with disabilities need a great deal of help to lead a satisfying sex life, and with the continued stigma surrounding disability and sexuality, this issue has been ignored and avoided for years. For example, while it may be very easy and comfortable for a person to lend a helping hand in the bathroom, the same person can feel constrained in the bedroom when offering assistance to a person with a disability. The entire process of ensuring a good sex life for people with disabilities requires significant resources as well as training for caregivers to understand and help with the sexual needs of people with disabilities.
The struggle to have a satisfying sex life for people with disabilities becomes even more challenging when a person lives in a shared environment, especially with relatives. The attitudes of those around people with disabilities greatly affect their sexual needs, especially when people are not trained and educated to deal with their sexual needs. Without a change in attitudes toward the sexual needs of people with disabilities, people living in shared households will continue to be deprived of the basic needs in life.
Why it's important for men with disabilities to have more sex
Disability has a significant impact on the sexual lives of men with disabilities. However, people with disabilities encounter the same barriers that people with sexually active lives face: self-esteem, self-confidence, overwhelming sexuality and the physical and psychological aspects of obtaining a partner. A disability can greatly hinder your sex life, but coming up with measures to deal with the situation and adapting to new ways of behaving sexually can ensure that the sex lives of men with disabilities are not compromised. While some disabilities result in a loss of physical responsiveness around the genitals, which can be a huge blow to a disabled man's sex life, they can still achieve pleasure, intimacy and even orgasm through creative sexual activity. In such cases, talking to a doctor can help improve the sex lives of men with disabilities by identifying various ways to obtain sexual pleasure without involving the genital area. From touching body parts such as the cheeks, ears, neck, back and hands to using different scents or sounds, topical application is a great way to enhance the sex life of men with disabilities without exchanging bodily fluids.
Publications such as Vancouver Coastal Health's Supporting Sexual Health and Intimacy in Care Facilities contain manuals and procedures designed to educate and guide clinicians in assisting patients with disabilities and helping them lead a satisfying sex life. While suggesting or helping someone develop intimacy can cause some discomfort, such publications help educate caregivers about changes in the sexual behavior of people with disabilities and greatly stimulate awareness that caregivers actually play an important role in contributing to a satisfying sex life.
Just like people who are sexually active, people with sexual impairments want a satisfying intimate life. Having a disability may make sex the last thing on people's minds, especially for people with spinal cord injuries or other disabilities that limit your flexibility and mobility. While this may be the case in some cases, there are still a large number of men with disabilities who firmly believe that a disability should not limit their ability to enjoy a productive sex life. Because people with disabilities are at a disadvantage in the dating world, there are steps that can be taken to improve the sex lives of men with disabilities that are designed to reduce the stigma associated with disability and sex and ensure a more productive sex life. These factors include: finding a disability companion, joining a disability social group, purchasing realistic sex dolls
How men with disabilities can have more sex
Couples with disabilities
#1. finding a disabled partner
Definitely an ideal way to spice up the sex lives of men with disabilities because they are at a disadvantage in the traditional dating world, being married to a disabled partner means that the couple understands each other's impairments and is willing to go the extra mile to have a satisfying sex life. While it can be daunting to be in a situation where one partner does not have a disability, having both partners disabled can foster confidence because both partners are on the same page, which inspires a degree of motivation and initiative.
Being married to a partner with a disability is also important to eliminate the frustration that can occur when trying to enjoy sex. Sexuality for men with disabilities is challenging and requires special resources and assistance, and the last thing a disabled person wants is for his partner to not appreciate his efforts to ensure that the couple has a satisfying sex life. Therefore, having a woman with a disability is a great thing because she will understand and appreciate the effort and hard work you put in and will likely be a part of the process.
Join a social group for people with disabilities
#2. Join a social group for people with disabilities.
Just like marrying a fellow disabled person, the secret here is to be with people who relate to your situation. The sex lives of men with disabilities can be hectic due to the stigma surrounding disability and sexuality, but listening and sharing your personal experiences with other disabled people can guarantee a great deal of learning and much-needed motivation.
Look around at social groups of people with disabilities and indulge in their activities. Open up and make more friends (the more the merrier). Making more friends is very important, especially because it will give you plenty of indulgent people to turn to, especially when you're at a low point.
#3. Buy sex dolls
Over the years, as sex dolls have grown in popularity and gained significant recognition in most societies, these magical deities remain the best option for adding spice to the sex lives of people with disabilities in a society where they are at a disadvantage in the dating world. A realistic sex doll not only provides you with a no-apology sexual experience, but also provides you with a ready and obedient partner who is ready for you and will never judge or question you. Dolls are neither nagging nor subject to moods and emotional swings.
Buying realistic sex dolls is a great way to revitalize the sex lives of men with disabilities. With the highly modified, specialized resources and trained caregivers needed to promote a satisfying sex life, sex dolls are perfectly flexible. Sex dolls are often very portable and flexible, so they can perform any sexual stunt in a less stressful situation. This positive quality makes sex dolls a great option to ensure that sex for men with disabilities is performed in an easy and relaxed way. Nowadays, the dolls are very realistic sex dolls and you can go for the style you want according to your preference, there are Japanese sex dolls, black sex dolls, young sex dolls and mature sex dolls and so on
#4. disabled dating sites
Over the years, more and more disabled dating sites have sprung up as people become more aware of the importance of satisfying the sex lives of disabled people to their overall health.Disability Match UK, Whispers4u and Dating4disabled are examples of disabled dating sites that provide a platform for disabled people to can find people with disabilities and find a satisfying sex life. Whether or not these interactions lead to lifelong relationships, disabled dating sites have greatly enhanced the sexual lives of people with disabilities.
In fact, some disabled dating sites are not only disabled-specific, but are also for people who are healthy but beyond obvious disabilities and are looking for the satisfying relationships they may have. However, you don't have to limit yourself to disabled dating sites if you don't want to. These sites have dramatically changed the sex lives of men with disabilities: whether you are looking for pure friendship, lifelong companionship or quick sex, disabled dating sites are what you need to look for.
Dating for disabled people
#5. Visit a brothel
While prostitution may not be socially recognized in many societies, the importance of sex to human life cannot be ignored, and this is especially true for people with disabilities who are at a disadvantage in the traditional dating market. While it may seem odd to put people with disabilities and sexual escorts together, there is a unifying factor on both sides; their relationship is marginalized and surrounded by a certain stigma.
No matter how tempting it may be, always wear a condom when going to a brothel. According to studies, most people contract sexually transmitted diseases while under the influence of drugs. Avoid going to a brothel under the influence of drugs and engage in safe sex again.
In short, sex for men with disabilities is challenging and requires a great deal of modification and assistance. With the right resources, caregiver training, ideal partners, and motivation from fellow disabled men who lead satisfying sex lives, the sex lives of men with disabilities can be improved.